Mikey P, the Scots generally meet up in ones and twos and then every so often someone organises a bigger get together.
There's *always* space for folks to slope off and get out of the hubbub.
It's the same at the Moot, there's an entire estate as well as the biggest sand dunes in Europe to wander / camp / chill out. You're only as close to folks as you chose to be.
Lindsey herself said that she noticed the issues she mentioned at the Moot and at the other Meet. Not one of the Mods or any other person noticed a problem, because I can assure you had we done so it would have been dealt with at the time.
I'm glad Lindsey did bring it up though, it gives us all a chance to have a long think about our actions.
cheers,
Toddy
Thanks for the explanation but it's still not for me! Although I'm quite forthright and opinionated, I value the smaller group scenario too much for a Moot...maybe one day.... Anyway, perhaps we'll meet up for a forage one day soon? We move to Glasgow (Bishopbriggs area) on 20th Aug and I probably need to tap you for some recipes and certainly some secret sloe bush locations - gin is awaiting!
I know the Mods would have done something about issues at the time if they'd known but I guess it's something that Lindsey perhaps didn't feel comfortable about raising - possibly concerned at other people's hostile reactions? - and waited until she'd really had a chance to think about it. Unfortunately, in my experience, simple misunderstandings can become confrontational very quickly and I guess that's the last thing anyone wanted to happen.
Again, none of my comments imply any criticism of Tony, Mary, other Mods and volunteers because I know you would do everything in your power to make things enjoyable for all. I want to be absolutely clear on that.