as to hugging never had anything like that in my childhood.still find it hard to be touchy feely with people yet every one we know brings there trouble to us
Put thirty Scots in a lift and we'll have found out everyone's job and that the guy at the buttons is related to the wifie who stayed next door to the wee woman at the back's Granny before it gets up five floors.
Ignore someone when you're standing at a bus stop at your peril
Not quite true but it's pretty close sometimes.
Hugging is a normal part of life for me, though the indescriminate right to kiss folks at the New Year can sometimes get a bit wearing.
I go into the workshops and everybody I know hugs me It's kind of expected really.
I agree that if the lady concerned had been asked three times and she persisted, then you have a right to clearly denounce her actions. I still don't agree with the threat of a slapped face mind you, but no, it sounds as though she was well out of order.
cheers,
M
Oh I don't know if it's as simple as being a Scots thing Toddy? I've found you West Coasters a lot more tactile than the somewhat Calvanistic East Coasters. I've gone for days in Edinburgh with no-one speaking to me, but when I lived in Glasgow I used to get the hind legs talked off of me.
TTFN
GB.
I read one of the anthropological journals which had a discussion on tribal and village interactions compared with town and city. The gist of it was that village mentality people will acknowledge every person they meet. To not do so, to ignore someone, is a horrendous slight. However, in a town situation one physically cannot do this with every simgle person.
I think I'm a villager
this new trend of hugging everyone or even worse the fake kiss kiss on the cheeks is just not for me.