Its all about perception, let me use me as an example,
Dave 1, no friends close by, unemployed for three years, and sporadic employment for the three years before that, I cut down trees, I burn wood when out, I still buy expensive kit and sometimes pointless kit and tell every one about it here and on face book,
Dave 2, We have moved house 4 times in the last 6 years so my mates are spread about, been a house husband for the last three years to look after our little nippers, and the three years before that I worked as an aircraft fitter, postman, HGV driver, radio communications installations engineer, I cut down trees that are mark to come out for management purposes with permission and use the wood to make things for family and friends to better my skills and hopefully one day make a little pocket money from it and provide us with new plates and bowls due to my clumsy ways, I burn wood while out as IMO it is better than taking fuel with me that uses heavy industry to make it usable for my means, as I mentioned we move a lot due to wifely and her work so having access to a place where i can talk about skills and kit that i enjoy using or find out how to make the things i need whether that be in the garage or while out and about is brilliant!
As I said in my previous post if your on the what's new button a lot then you mostly see kit related threads as they often have the highest turn around of posts with peeps expressing there views, excitements, hints and warnings, where as if you potter of into the forum sections you see the threads that slow boil with constant additions over time building up lots of information on very hard to learn subjects, like Bushwhackers tracking threads, brilliant idea but because it takes time to gather pics they build up slowly rather than 50 posts over night.
Of course if your just looking for an instant support structure to help you with your own problems, you cant expect peeps to warm to your issues immediately, friendships(even electronic ones) take time to build, I've been a member here for quite a while but it only in the last year that I've truly come to understand what a great place this is, and what a encyclopaedia there is held in the minds and threads of the members, it does, as everything worthwhile should, take effort on your part to become part of the forum, and accept that there has to be different opinions to make this place work, after all its a forum not an agreement.
HOLY POOP! that's two semi lucid posts in one thread! where's THE HELLION, I need some pointless goonery!
Cheers Southey!