Thanks for the posts and comments. We are doing ok, we knew it was on the cards.
We are thankful for time we have had with her as about 2 years ago we found out she was getting worse and was sick more and more of the time. 2 years ago she said all she wanted was to be able to see my son be born, Well she was around for that (18 months ago), when my son Noah was born we found out my younger brother had a baby on the way and my Nana was able to see Ellie her great granddaughter born (8 months ago) Nana has always loved kids, she used to foster kids and they brought her a lot of joy and you could see that the last time we saw her (knowing it would possibly be the last time)
My younger sister is very upset so I will take her camping this weekend to help her with her healing process and to give my mother time to make the necessary arrangements.