Im in exactly the same boat and funnily enough was gon start a thread on it lol!!
I have one the roll up jobbys to but have been looking on the net at the gelert backpackers table, it looks very good and handy, but for me whatever I take or buy its gotta be metal so I can get the stove off of the floor and not worry about it melting a plastic table!!
I think though as this is also my first meet (rough close cant blooming wait) Im just gonna take the roll up car camping table, see how I get on with it and have a little nosey at what others are using lol!!
And then if I think I need a smaller one buy it for the next one!!
Cheers
Steve