How many of you have figured out what it is you were put on this earth to do, or is it still as much of a mystery to you, as it is to me?
For various reasons, I've revisited this same question myself many times in life. I have looked at it from a religious perspective (In my teens I was going to be a priest) and then from a scientific point of view (having had a very long relationship with the outdoors, I looked into all things evolutionary including biology and physics etc). I'm now 40, have been with my 56year old wife for 20 years, I have three grown-up step kids, and they have recently added two grandsons to the collection.
I have seen some pretty horrific things throughout my different careers, but none of which I can pin any deep metaphysical meaning to, except maybe to learn from them. I have read all manner of books, some on religion, philosophy, psychology evolution etc. but Pratchett always came out on top - life is jam packed with ironies and contradictions which he brilliantly and humourously portrayed. At this point in my life I am of the opinion that there is no answer, there are simply choices; but of course ironically this may change and at some point I may choose to contradict this!
My philosophy has been to try and live life by doing no harm and try to help those I meet along the way should they want me to - that's my chosen purpose; whether I believe this path is happening arbitrarily, has already been defined for me through 'nature / nurture' or possibly set out as part of the ineffable plan of a higher being, it doesn't quite matter, because, no matter what, I'm still the one who finds himself living it. When circumstances change, as they always do, I'll have some new choices to make, but they will still be around that same philosophy above, because it strikes me as a good life to live and is good for others around me too.
I have never had my own kids and I don't regret this at all. I made this a personal choice very early on, feeling that the world had enough problems without me adding to them and also that I did not want children of mine brought up inheriting the problems of the world. I haven't seen anything as yet to make me regret this. Some people call this 'selfish', but I have never fully understood why, because surely you have to be depriving or disadvantaging somebody else to be 'selfish' and I don't feel that I have.
If you feel 'directionless', look around for a 'path' you like the look of and make a conscious, reasoned choice to follow it, whether it has a deep purpose, a hedonistic goal or its simply to satisfy your curiosity. We all have regrets about choices we have made, but 'the person who has never made a mistake, has probably never done anything at all' and if you made your decisions with genuine good intentions your regrets will be minor and short lived.
So endeth the first book of Ferret75!! I'm going out to wander the wilderness and find some suspicious looking fungi.
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