It's also a very prevalent attitude that they will get nessasary stuff later. I have one female friend who has nothing prepared and I've been asking every now and then for the past two years how she's doing on the list I gave her. She admitted again this week she hasn't done anything except buy some puzzles to keep entertained.
. I do hope she doesn't come knocking on my door, but I do have an ikea stove, a box of matches a bag of twigs, and some candles put by for her if the worst happens. The rest is up to her. She's had two years to sort things out. It's realy annoying! Im not her mother!
Other friends are now beginning to realise what I've been talking about and are now getting into gear,all be it a bit late in the day. But at least they are trying a bit harder now.
I've always had the habit of stocking up everytime something is on offer, just two tins at a time., today was two tins of peaches, trawling the charity shops as often as possible for woollens, blankets, candles, or anything that can be used in a power cut, or go into an off grid kitchen.
Today's wool scarf and stove top fan were an excellent buy. I almost missed the fan, as it was on a low down shelf, but I thankfully saw it just as I was about to leave.
I thank heavens im able to go to my local charity shops every day, and pick up the bargains. It can take months to find what I need sometimes, but it always seems to appear at the right time.