The most important thing is to find the right breeder. I have known three Golden Retrievers that have attacked, to varying degrees, their owners. This has been due to a combination of bad breeding and bad habits in raising them ( ie treating them as a child and not a dog).
Have you set your heart on a Golden Retriever or are you open to change ?
Shaun
Yes I have definitely gotten the message re my use of the word 'punished', I have ordered copies of all the recommended books and hope to be read them through the winter.
The Golden Retriever choice was mostly due to having lived on an estate where the landowner had used them and because a friend was about to get himself a pup and had quizzed me for some advice and yes I would look at other breeds.
I will need to give up my itinerant existence and get myself a plot of land before I end up owning a dog and that won't happen till late next year I'd think.
Thanks for everyones advice.