lol Adam, nope nothing like that, it seems i am just tooo popular, have the following "commitments" to decide from
1, the woods with you all
2, weekend out with a good friend on his house boat
3, weekend helping another friend out at a festival
4, being around for my baby girls transition to big school
number 2 has been knocked back, he will forgive me

number 3 is a bit duty bound but means i cannot do 1 or 4
number 4 is what i want and need to do, which also means i could do a bit of 1 too
but, number 3 friend is sorta counting on me and letting him down will be somewhat awkward
what makes it worse is Mrs Ajuna will not make the decision for me
:,(