Okay, I'll bite, although its somewhat against my better judgement 
I fully agree with everyone who says that Meets are different (or can be). You are out for a social event, you want to spend your time chatting to people and possibly trying to pick up new skills. Much of the kit that goes along to Meets isn't really anything to do with the practice of bushcraft. However, if you had to carve all your eating utensils, build a natural shelter, gather your own food, snare a couple of rabbits and weave a sleeping bag, you would probably not have much time to chat with friends from afar
Of course, if you wish to treat every camping trip as practice for your next ultra-minimalist expedition, that's cool too, but a lot of people can find learning a few skills during the day, then just camping through the night to be challenge enough. I try, usually with but limited success, to pack my bag as if I will have to carry it a long way, but the car will still be loaded with socialising kit - the lanern, chair, larger tarp, big pot, kettle, latest craft work and random tools and materials. This isn't needed to spend the time outdoors, but much of it is often needed to participate in the Meet.

I fully agree with everyone who says that Meets are different (or can be). You are out for a social event, you want to spend your time chatting to people and possibly trying to pick up new skills. Much of the kit that goes along to Meets isn't really anything to do with the practice of bushcraft. However, if you had to carve all your eating utensils, build a natural shelter, gather your own food, snare a couple of rabbits and weave a sleeping bag, you would probably not have much time to chat with friends from afar

Of course, if you wish to treat every camping trip as practice for your next ultra-minimalist expedition, that's cool too, but a lot of people can find learning a few skills during the day, then just camping through the night to be challenge enough. I try, usually with but limited success, to pack my bag as if I will have to carry it a long way, but the car will still be loaded with socialising kit - the lanern, chair, larger tarp, big pot, kettle, latest craft work and random tools and materials. This isn't needed to spend the time outdoors, but much of it is often needed to participate in the Meet.