I'm with you there.
I've never understood the obsession (I was going to say passion, but I think 'obsession' is far more appropriate) most football fans exhibit.
Team does well = all's well in the world.
Team does badly = sulks, pouting, much lamenting and game dissection between like-minded friends, colleagues, associates or any member of the public prepared to listen. Lengthy diatribe detailing how the game
should have been played (what's that all about ?) and a total inability to accept that in any event where there are two competitors (either individuals or teams) that there will always be a winner and a loser on the day.
Repeated use of the word "we" when discussing ones team, as though the fan in question has risen above mere supporter status and has somehow become an intrinsic part of the team...
I'll stop now before I get stoned in the village square as a heretic...
I would always argue that if it means so much to you that it can adversely affect your daily life then it means far too much to you for your own good.
If I go fishing and catch a fish, that's great; but so is just going fishing...
If I go shooting and bag some ducks, geese, or whatever, that's great; but so is just going shooting...
If I manage to light a fire with a hand drill in horrible weather conditions I'm chuffed to bits to have succeeded in challenging circumstances. The rain and wind don't spoil the event - they simply force you to change your approach and get on with dealing with it.
I'll get my coat...