The reality of a RAW file is two hundred and eighty million ones and zeros, recorded and stored electronically.
The reality you are talking about is having those ones and zeros converted into a picture according to algorithms designed by someone who does not know what you are actually pointing the camera at. Working purely on statistics, the assumption made, is that you are probably pointing your camera at your friend in an oriental karaoke bar with a flash on and your camera set on automatic. Your picture is therefore optimised for that sort of picture.
Sadly, that is the kind of result that many people have come to expect from their cameras and it leads to the general dissatisfaction that is characterised when people say "I can't take good pictures." Even sadder is that they think that is actually what the scene looked like and that their memory is at fault because they thought it looked better than that when they were there...
My reality involves converting my raw files, which are exposed to maximise the accuracy of the stored data, in a way that reflects my memory of the scene based upon actually being there and seeing it with my own eyes.
I know which reality I prefer.
A camera records data very differently from the way a human perceives a scene. For a start a sensor has less dynamic range than our scanning vision with it's constantly adjusting iris. Your camera, any camera for that matter, can only record a representation of that information and it requires either a thinking mind or unthinking software to translate that information into an interpolated eight bit sRGB JEPG file that can be displayed on your monitor or a print.
As a matter of interest, some of these pictures have not had any work done to them in PhotoShop apart from adding my signature. I only need to use PhotoShop if it can render something that is not possible directly from the RAW conversion software.
I do wish people would stop confusing reality with data.
By the way, I could recommend some much better books on the subject for you if you like Ric.
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