zambezi said:
I will ever stand fast in the defense of democracy. I will always use my voice to move governance towards the fair treatment of all peoples, here and abroad.
We live and work in London and will be at work tomorrow.
Vince & Tina
Let it be water off a duck's back. Show the perpetrators that we cannot be intimidated.
Some think that the phrase "turn the other cheek" is weakness, allowing an aggressor to strike a second time.
In fact, by showing the aggressor that his first strike was wasted, that you hold his violence in utter contempt and that you have the courage and strength to shrug it off, you discourage him.
He expects a certain reaction. Don't give him the reaction he expects.
Show him that however much clumsy, indiscriminate force he expends on that first strike, and on his second, you're steadfast and courageous.
After the first strike, explain that he is wasting his time; you are right, he is wrong and you will not change.
After the second strike, explain again.
But if he strikes a third time, it is pointless to seek to convince him.
Keith.