Thankyou.
Having seen active service and LOST mates. I still wake up, at times crying like the proverbial baby. The only way I have made it through my life to be here and now is massive love and support from my family and close friends. Even the Army were fantastic in my return to "normality". My wife puts up with so much from me but she does so with love and complete understanding.
You must have known what the score was when you signed on the dotted line unless your a moron no point crying after the event is there ,,,,,,if you cant deal with it don't join up simple as
It's not that simple.
No one can know what actually being in action is going to be like; having mates killed in front of you and not knowing if you're next.
No one knows how they are going to react during, or after, the trauma.
No amount of training or briefings or films or exercises can let you know the reality.
If you were exposed to that sort of trauma and escaped undamaged think yourself very lucky and cut a bit of slack for the people who weren't so lucky.