Thanks for the comments guys, all much appreciated. Like many of you said its all a matter of opinion of what works for who and where - but I am looking for a blinding flash of inspiration at the moment!
Old Bones - I will go check that thread out thanks for the info! Thats what I am looking at really, modern* equivalents of tried and tested traditional kit, such as the hobo stove over gas and a millbank bag over filters. Ok - that makes much more sense!
Its not so much that I hate modern kit and want to get away with it, I am trying to avoid what I have done so far (through hiking a lot) which is have lots of nice kit for certain circumstances in different places when a good chance has it that what I want is what I dont have on me**. I want to go back to basics with kit that will work all year round and will suite all my needs.
The problem I see as it is: I could go buy a ton of posh hiking kit and be comfortable etc, but I wont like it, I physically dont like the modern kit. Equally I could go buy all traditional kit, but I wont be comfortable (when hiking distances of 12-15 miles +) I know some of you will laugh and call me weak, but yeah, I am a bit of a wuss. Hiking a few miles into a wood may be fine for most and me but I want to be able to carry it miles on all sorts of adventures, and having my shoulders hurt and being miserable is not my idea of fun!
* By modern - I am talking about the weight and composition here, though I am not an ounce counting meanie if I can make my pack lighter I will but it is the last consideration. As for the composition, I have a wool bush shirt, I could wear it every day and it will still look new, its just tough as nails (but I wont wear it for pretty much any of the year as its too hot, and pretty itchy!), but then I have fancy hiking kit that is good for keeping warm and dry etc but if you look at it wrong it will fall apart - I need to find a balance somewhere.
** I find a lot of modern kit is aimed at consumerism - which I am a sucker for. For example sawyer filter, great bit of kit, but I cant use it in freezing conditions therefore I need another filter to work in those conditions when it is freezing etc etc.
John - making my own kit is something I occasionally dabble in, and the satisfaction you get is huge! Where I can make my own, I try to. But for the most part I am not really in a position to be making much, no tools or skills!
Ross - I dont think your being rude at all
Your exactly right, I want modern kit, in stylistic choice. Exactly! Its not that I feel that traditional kit will make me close to nature, its just the options it provides for me. If for example, I used a gas stove, I can find a spot and brew up in a few moments, if I went for the more traditional cooking over fire, I would need to find tinder and such along the way. I have a craving for using more of what I know to the test, rather than walking past a fungi and going "oh thats xyz, I can use that for abc" as I have no need to use it.
I think bombproof was a over exaggeration on my own part, your right with what you say. I just ' feel' that traditional kit is more harder wearing, a flint and steel is more than likely (!?!?) going to break. Where as I have to pray to the gods of Jetboil when I use my stove as who knows weather it will work of weather it chooses to take my eyebrows off!
Now I dont want to be the one seeming rude here either but using what worked is not really an option so to speak, I have no real need to go outside (other than the fact I get moapy if I dont), where as in days gone past the old boys were working outside year round. Yes they had to use what worked, but I can use what I like and go home if it doesent and leaving the house has become a total option! But I do see what your saying - why change something if it does what we need it too.
Polecatstove - (love the name by the way!) - Your a man after my own heart, I agree with you totally, there is something just.... satisfying, with that sort of kit? I think what people carry and why is a great debate because everybody has there own ideas and inspiration. I will have to go check that pack out, looks very nice!
Thank you for all the help guys! Much appreciated