If you look at the romer scale, there will be about three for different scale maps choose the one you need. If you are not sure check the romer on a grid square, the 1 to 10 numbers should fit exactly.
If you look at the numbers they are going the wrong way? The scale starts with 1 in the top right corner and goes down on the side and from right to left along the top.
What you do is put the top right corner on your position, with the top and sides parallell with the grid square, and read the number from the left and the bottom where the grid lin goes under it.
If you are going from a grid reference to the map you do the opposite and put the numbers on the gridline and the top corner of the romer is the position.
Try it and it will make sense!
It is a lot easier to show than explain, but I have seen lots of people complain about the numbers going the wrong way on the romer and turning them upside down and all sorts!