I stopped a few years back, at the time, I gve up added salt, meat, avaoided processed food, took up baking bread, the idea was that I was so occupied with making sure I got a decent diet with all the restrictions that I didnt miss the smokes. I also tried to go places where smoking wasnt possible, ie jogging, swimming, sitting in the non smoking sections (it was some years back) It worked for me, I agree that you need to find the motivator for you. (also, I work on oncology trials, so that is a very strong motivator to stay off cigs) Good luck, you will notice the difference, and will be glad of it..