Hi Man of Tanith,
Just my 'off the cuff thoughts' - no need to take them too seriously, and they may even be of use: If I've understood your comments correctly, your list represents a kind of 'store room of equipment', from which you will pick items to suit the intended trip? Unless you actually break it down into separate hypothetical winter & summer kit lists its a little hard for other people to comment on. For example, do you intend to take both a phoon and a spork on a summer trip or will you pick one or the other? Will you be taking both hexi blocks and meths as fuel or will it be one or the other? See what I mean?
If you simply listed a hypothetical kit list, (rather than a list of items from which you will choose), and it still included both phoon and spork, then maybe I could comment that you are unnecessarily doubling up on gear, but as the list currently stands, it's hard to tell what your intention is.
Do you really need to take handwarmers? Will you not be able to light a fire or just put your hands in your pockets, or use warm water in your waterbottle, etc, etc.
There are much lighter alternatives to the steel water bottle. You won't be needing it to boil water in either, since you have so many other items of metal cookware.
Another method which may help you to pare down the list is to get it to a point where you are roughly happy with it, and then set yourself the task of removing 10 items, (or 5 or 15 or whatever.) You will still be left with a long list of kit, but it will be 10 items less in weight. Example: Do you really need the phone charger? (Or even the phone for that matter). Just turn the phone on for emergency use. Of course, if you're the sort of person who can't do without a phone, then you match your priorities of kit to suit your own wants and needs. If you succeed in deleting 10 items, repeat the process and try and delete another 5 or 3 until you feel that you absolutely couldn't do without the remaining bits of kit on your trip.
Sorry if it sounds like I'm teaching you to suck eggs here, but I don't know what your level of experience is, and it sounds as if you are struggling to reduce your load. Certainly no offence meant.