Ahhh. So you think ordinary hazing (an ordinary team bonding activity in most male teams, military or civilian) is bullying. That explains your feminism.
You don’t understand how the activities I described from my teenage years fit in? Again, that explains a lot. They were a reply to a poster pushing her experience doing recreational hiking as evidence that men and women are physically equal. They ain’t.
I said the lady in question in the OP should carry less than 20% on her next trip? Read it again; I said that was the general rule of thumb for people, horses, and mules as stated and taught by such organizations as the Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, and Cavalry.
What some porter in Nepal does as hs job is a long, long way from what the average domesticated westerner does for recreation.
The hazing/bullying thing in the armed forces crops up in the news here from time to time, usually after some poor young recruit decides that being penetrated with a broom handle wasn’t what he signed up for and tops himself. If that kind of thing made you the man you are today then fair enough.
You seem concerned that my development as a man has been stunted as a result of not being exposed to a hyper-masculine environment during my youth. As I mentioned earlier, I spent my late teens many thousands of miles from home working in rural Australian shearing sheds. Plenty of testosterone, beer and lots of pranks at the expense of the Pommie kid but all in good heart and definitely no broom handles.
Not sure what all of this has to do with female hikers though.
Have another look a Birchwood’s post #6, but a bit more carefully this time. She does not claim either that she is physically equal to or stronger than the OP or that all women are as strong as all men. Birchwood simply says that despite a leg injury she believed that she could walk further than the OP. Maybe she can, maybe she can’t but she certainly didn’t say anything to justify your rather bizarre “log” themed post #13.
Post #13 seems to have had the desired effect though, I don’t think Birchwood has posted again. Good thing too, active women hikers getting involved in discussions about women hiking - that way madness lies.
If it’s any consolation, I doubt whether a female Nepalese porter would get very far wearing a pair of cowboy boots!
Santaman, I’m probably not the only person on here wondering whether all this rather desperate macho bravado is just masking some deep insecurities. I guess when a national hero and alpha male athlete like Bruce Jenner ends up rocking frocks on reality TV, it could start a lesser man worrying about his identity. Don’t worry, IME, it is quite possible to respect and even admire strong and capable women without wanting to become one - not sure what will happen if you start speaking French though!