Depends on what you're like as a person I guess.
I often see people wearing DPM gear and I never think "hmm what a wannabe". To me DPM is affordable hard wearing gear. I don't wear it myself but I do have a few pairs laying around that I use for walking the dogs and messy jobs.
My trousers cost £80 and my jackets range from £180 to £300. I don't mind paying the price for them as I put them through hell and they stand up to it. I roll around in the mud, sit next to fires, hop over barbed wire fences, the lot.
Unfortunately though, I've seen people in similar gear being very cautions, in fact, that's an understatement. I once witnessed a man, in the same trousers as I wear along with a Bear Grylls jacket (probably somewhere in the region of £100+) stop every time he heard a hawthorn rub over the outside of his jacket, cautiously inspected every inch of it, then carried on..
. Before he stopped to take a sip of water, which took all of about 5 seconds, he took out a foam pad from his ruck sack to kneel on so his trousers wouldn't go in the mud. About 30 seconds later, he was on his way again.
. It wouldn't have been so bad if he was older and suffered with his knees ect. But he must have been about 23 and looked as fit as a lop.
Some people are very OTT about using their kit for it's manufactured purpose. it's very strange.
If DPM works for you, for whatever reason, I'd wear it. Personally I don't think you're making yourself out to be anything by doing so... That's from an ex squaddie.
LJ