Great post Abbe.
And a very useful dose of realism.
Perhaps this will put an end to the head-in-the-clouds 'I'm so depressed I'm going to leave modern life behind and go and live in the woods what do you think?' posts.
I think that your advice is amongst some of the best I have seen in this forum: practical and realistic. It is also fantastic to read about what you can actually do with your money.
Well done. A quality story.
I still believe it is a good idea to follow his own heart, you never know what comes out of it. 20 years ago I went to Finland and tried to break loose for the first time. I gave up on my job took my backback and wanted to stay in the woods of Finland until I have to come out . I planed for 3 month at least if no longer.
Well, that was the dream.
The dream needed me! I would be needed to put feet onto it otherwise nothing can happen!
Right?!
In that way the 20 years old cityslicker from Berlin ended up in Lappland finding his soul and mind in a state of schock. I have never seen such a big forest. I only read some cool books about some guys who went to Alaska got some land and started to live there.
Remember these where still the 80th.
I remember me thinking: Well, now you are here and isnt it funny that when you dream of the tress and the mountains, ones heart is full and warm but now when I live my dream, whats left in the heart, nothing - I had nothing more to dream off. ( That was the moment when your dream kisses reality)
Instead of staying 3 month I was on my way back home already after a week.
But isnt life wonderfull, there in Lappland on my way back I met my wife and we got married already after 3 month. I stayed in Finland much longer than I thought I would and this year we are 20 years married.
I think today if I would not have followed the inclination of my heart, I would have stayed in Berlin. And iIf I would have forced myself to stay put in the forest even my heart told me, dont stay in that forest, move on, I would not have met my wife either.
So, for me it was good to dream, to walk the dream, to fail, to see Reality and get married.
The second time I felt the call to go to the north was 3 years ago. I really tried it as I didnt learned enough about myself in first round. They where 3 very tuff but good years as I learned a lot about myself, I dont want to miss them but now I feel that this time is over and
I am selling everything Bushcrafty I have and move on.
Its good to dare, to dream and to walk.
Yours Abbe
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