I can truthfully say I've never organised one that either left me out of pocket, or that I had to clean up after everyone went home. The usual pack stuff away sometimes but that's it.
I try very, very hard not to over organise or mother folks. They are all adults and I want to enjoy the company too
I have no problems with folks having a sociable drink, no problems with adult conversations (I ask for reasonable bedtimes for youngsters so that adult conversations around the campfire later in the evening aren't awkward, and so far all of the adults have been great with the children that come along ) and anyone who has brought a dog with them to anything has always been more than courteous about clearing up.
By nature I prefer a tidy camp, it's just easier to move around, get things done, but when it's busy helping hands are appreciated.
I do have a pet hate of walking into a camp and finding the crates of booze in full view, but that's *my* issue. I might hand folks a green bin bag and ask them to put it into it if the site is at all public for a part of the day, but that's it. Makes the clear up easier too
Wayland's recycling bin bags are a good idea when there are more than two or three of us, as well
Generally I find if someone starts clearing up other folks help out, but then none of us are really guilty of leaving trash anyway.
I'm sorry that Simon (and he is not the only one who) has found some meets to be a problem at times
I think it's maybe easier for us up here because we get out quite a lot, meets are just a more sociable event for us.
Many of us felt it was time to move that social side along a bit and actually do a lot more hands on, so the next one we've called a Skills Sharing, and folk have agreed up front to share the cost of the hall.
In Summer I think we'd just work outdoors, but this allows us to work long after dark at handcraft stuffs in these early nights.
I don't think I have any right to demand that no one drinks. It's a social event still, and I see no reason why folks can't have a drink.
I freely admit I'm not a fan of individuals who get totally wasted though. What's the point ? Enjoy the company, enjoy a drink in their company, don't be an iijit.
A few 'very' mellow individuals who get told exaggerated stories the next day of how very drunk they were, and what they said and did, and they go a little easier the next night
Aggressive drunkeness has no place on events like ours.
As for the mess on site, and the work that needs done, well, sometimes folks don't know 'how' to help; but they're more than happy if someone asks for a hand.
"Could you maybe see to the firewood ?, there's a saw and an axe there and **** will be happy to show you where/ how/ help out."
"Do you think we could have a wee redd up after dinner ? Get set for the evening without tripping over all this clutter ? "
"Can I get a hand lift these bin bags over to the recycling ?"
"Anyone up for helping bring down a dead standing from up the hill? "
"Could someone keep an eye on the fire for me ? It could do with more wood"
"Is that kettle on ? Go on then
mine's a black coffee with two sugars
Cheers "
If people feel welcome, and involved, then I find everyone helps out and we all have a good meet
with no extra work for anyone.
I don't know what I'd do afterwards if I had to litter pick the camp once the offenders had sloped off.
Yeah, I'd be pretty cheesed off 
cheers,
Toddy
I try very, very hard not to over organise or mother folks. They are all adults and I want to enjoy the company too

I have no problems with folks having a sociable drink, no problems with adult conversations (I ask for reasonable bedtimes for youngsters so that adult conversations around the campfire later in the evening aren't awkward, and so far all of the adults have been great with the children that come along ) and anyone who has brought a dog with them to anything has always been more than courteous about clearing up.
By nature I prefer a tidy camp, it's just easier to move around, get things done, but when it's busy helping hands are appreciated.
I do have a pet hate of walking into a camp and finding the crates of booze in full view, but that's *my* issue. I might hand folks a green bin bag and ask them to put it into it if the site is at all public for a part of the day, but that's it. Makes the clear up easier too

Wayland's recycling bin bags are a good idea when there are more than two or three of us, as well

Generally I find if someone starts clearing up other folks help out, but then none of us are really guilty of leaving trash anyway.
I'm sorry that Simon (and he is not the only one who) has found some meets to be a problem at times

I think it's maybe easier for us up here because we get out quite a lot, meets are just a more sociable event for us.
Many of us felt it was time to move that social side along a bit and actually do a lot more hands on, so the next one we've called a Skills Sharing, and folk have agreed up front to share the cost of the hall.
In Summer I think we'd just work outdoors, but this allows us to work long after dark at handcraft stuffs in these early nights.
I don't think I have any right to demand that no one drinks. It's a social event still, and I see no reason why folks can't have a drink.
I freely admit I'm not a fan of individuals who get totally wasted though. What's the point ? Enjoy the company, enjoy a drink in their company, don't be an iijit.
A few 'very' mellow individuals who get told exaggerated stories the next day of how very drunk they were, and what they said and did, and they go a little easier the next night

Aggressive drunkeness has no place on events like ours.
As for the mess on site, and the work that needs done, well, sometimes folks don't know 'how' to help; but they're more than happy if someone asks for a hand.
"Could you maybe see to the firewood ?, there's a saw and an axe there and **** will be happy to show you where/ how/ help out."
"Do you think we could have a wee redd up after dinner ? Get set for the evening without tripping over all this clutter ? "
"Can I get a hand lift these bin bags over to the recycling ?"
"Anyone up for helping bring down a dead standing from up the hill? "
"Could someone keep an eye on the fire for me ? It could do with more wood"
"Is that kettle on ? Go on then


If people feel welcome, and involved, then I find everyone helps out and we all have a good meet

I don't know what I'd do afterwards if I had to litter pick the camp once the offenders had sloped off.


cheers,
Toddy