No one's thinking otherwise of you; it's just that what seems so easy, is a bit of a minefield.
Many folks have done a lot of work to find suitable permissions, and they most certainly won't post details of those sites on open forum.
Where you stay is, to my Scottish viewpoint, slap bang in the middle of the *no wildcamping* bit of the world, and the forum has to reflect that.
Two bits of advice for you............quietly arrange to meet up with one or two other members and spend a couple of hours walking/talking with them. No one knows you, so even very local people to you won't be open to inviting you along to their permissions.......or even just talk with them on here, the pm system is fully open to you now since you have posted sufficiently, break the ice, kind of thing. Get along to one of the meet ups
Find the threads that talk about permissions. Ged did an excellent one not so long ago that explained how to go about getting permission for a site to use yourself, but it's a popular theme, and while it can be a lot of work, the rewards can be well worth it
Best of luck with it
cheers,
Toddy