gemma and i spent many an hour watching the wasps (common wasps) on our veggies last year. it seemed that individual wasps (spend an hour, it's remarkably simple to work out individuals) had different preferences for prey. most of the wasps that we watched were more than happy to clear away the easy prey, cabbage white catapillers, whereas some individuals seemed to be much happier taking on the spiders. the battles between wasps and spiders are intense, and not at all one sided. from what we observed the most successfull spider hunting wasps went about in a really very methodical way, they'd start by having as poke about at the web, seemingly to entice the spider out of his little hidey hole, and then when the spider came out the wasp would climb onto it's back and then snip off the spiders legs one by one until there was just a torso left which would then be carried away. gemma also watched the wasps seemingly ramming the spider from it's web, presumably to remove the spiders advantage. nature's cruel! every so often the spiders would win and mr wasp ended up cocooned, we never watched this happen though so i don't know the best opening gambit should you find yourself coming back as a spider.
i only recently learned that the wasps don't actually eat their prey, it gets fed to baby wasps, then the adult wasps live on baby wasp poo. wierd. similar to ants and greenfly, but then ants and wasps are pretty much the same thing.
cheers
stuart