I just read Stuart's post which initiated this thread and reading it carfeully I haven't had the time yet to read reactions to it which kept arriving here for the past 3 years.
A lot of info, Stuart! very useful reading indeed!
I am female and I always always ask for help and in a group always suggest we ask for help, be it only to confirm I am/we are on the right track or whenever the situation is remotely uncertain. It's always the "better safe than sorry" attitude that prevails.
It could be that conservation instinct is stronger in the female, possibly through cultural influence.
But possibly too from an instinct in the female to protect not only herself but vulnerable offspring too (human and a multitude of other species).
Pride is a long way down in her list of priorities in dangerous or uncertain situations.
While in the male (human and most other species) rivalry and competition with other males plays indeed a great part in his life. Maybe it appears to him as some form of survival too (psychologically).
Stuart talked of peer pressure on the male to "be right", knowing what he is doing" etc. in our society. Of course this pressure is absent as far as women are concerned as it is expected of them to seek assistance. If this is the case, well I make full use of these expectations and instinctively seek reassurance when unsure, and seek help even in anticipation of danger, let alone when already in danger.
What an interesting difference between the genders to reflect on!
I was never aware of what Stuart tells us about: men wanting to escape at all costs from the rescue situation, from "being caught" by rescuers...
and going to such extraordinary lengths to do so, indeed to risk their life to do so and even consciously take fatal decisions...
Now last but not least, this cup of tea, this life saving "tea ceremony" to go through first in our hour of need...this is fantastic info!
It goes with the info that we want an immediate answer to our predicament and there usually can't be one, digging ourselves out of the situation is a process, not a quick-fix answer. But to remove the anguish we give ourselves a quick answer, something to do,
any answer will do, any action will do, so to speak, even the most stupid, nonsensical, the at best pointless at worst fatal one...
The cuppa is a multi-purpose saver then!
I'll keep all this in mind and make sure I always have this tea-making kit on me at most times! I already seek comfort in a cuppa as a way of life anyway...
Now one last thing: a friend who is a seasoned mountaineer and climber told me a long time ago that whenever cold has set in, in altitude, you really feel cold inside and no extra piece of clothing seems to work, ONLY A HOT DRINK can.