I once read that strange large 'tubes' of nebula type 'things' had been discovered which were over 100 billion light years long. How could this be in a universe which is supposedly 14 billion light years across.
When you start to think about things that are very, very big (and also, as it happens, when you start to think about things that are very, very small) you have to put aside, or at least leave open to different interpretation, everything that you think you know about things that are, well, 'normal' sized. For the purposes of this argument, things like virus particles, spotty mushrooms and planets are all pretty much 'normal' sized.
The universe isn't 14 billion light years across, that's just approximately how
old we think it probably is, and
if the light that things emitted 14 billion years ago reaches us this afternoon then we can sort of say that they were 14 billion light years away when they emitted that light. But that isn't where they are now, that's where we think they were 14 billion years ago, and a lot can happen in 14 billion years. In fact a lot can happen in a micro-nano-nano-nano-second.
You might say that if the universe is that old, and if nothing can travel faster than light, then at its biggest it can only be 28 billion light years in diameter. But that assumes that it all started in the same 'place' (maybe it didn't, and what's a 'place' on these scales anyway?) and that the 'rules' were always the same throughout the entire 14 billion years (maybe they weren't, and, if it comes to that, what
are the rules?). We're still collecting the evidence, but the more we collect the more it looks like the 'inflation' ideas have a lot to offer. Intuitively, unfortunately, they're a bit like chewing those spotty mushrooms.
I hope you liked my very scientific terminology ...
The terminology doesn't really matter. That's why I called it the big whatsit. What matters is the way that you think about it. It's a whole new ball game.