I can see how much effort you are putting into making this work. You should be proud of yourself.
I have never previously contemplated a fire bow but this thread is certainly pushing me to add it to my list of projects.
@Stew video is everything that you need.
The following goes against all the learning theory that I know as it is a way of avoiding the underlying principle that Stew is showing you. You need that principle for fire and for tying a bowline!
It occurred to me - you have had the hitch the wrong way up and the notch pointing away from you. Perhaps what you needed to do was leave the equipment as it was and just walk round to the other side!
I’m looking for someone to test one of my creations. In a spare moment at a pottery club I made this cockle shell as a pivot. It is thick pottery and very heavily glazed. I don’t see it as any less authentic than a limpet or a hollow in a knife handle (but maybe others do).
If you think that it might help you then you can have it.