Sorry for the delay in replying to you all, I have been snowed under with life just lately and not been online.
Anyway, thanks for some great input and advice. Although I now hate you because I have a few more options to weigh up
I really wanted a Soul Pad bell tent originally but It meant yet another large tent to store and I already have one for when we take the car. I really wanted something that's lightweight, well made and easy to carry over long distances from the car.
As much as I like the hardcore flysheet sheet with pole approach I can't come to terms with not having a bug net to keep away the midges. You only have to spend a night on a windless night round here to know what I'm on about. You only have to have a light on in the front room for an hour and then take a close look at the window, the outside is crawling with beasties all wanting a part of you. Sleeping in, what amounts to a tarp and a walking pole with a personal bug net is one thing but being restricted to a bug net while trying to cook and get dressed/ undressed is a nightmare. If I had Heather with me it would be like locking her in a cell and it wouldn't be long before she went off the idea of camping. At least with a tent with a purpose made bug net it allows for free movement inside the tent while the daily chores are being done.
I'm still swaying towards the Shangri-La but at least now I can do a bit more research and make a few decisions.