All this advice is spot on. Lessons first, to make sure you don't pick up bad habits, then watch others (how they retrieve, counting before they retrieve) and fish with a friend who you know will share info. Some fishermen can be really selfish and refuse to tell you what they are using, seeing it as jolly bad form f you ask them. Me, I don't mind telling people.
Some people will tell you not to spend much on a reel as it's only for storing line. You'll get your preferences and then you'll find your own way.
Don't forget, it's called fishing, not catching; so you will get blanks, but even then you go home with a soul full of calm.