It was an interesting ramble of a thread, and we all learned something from it (as we did from the earlier one on the topic)
Folks are funny about some things, and we're not all 'funny' about the same things, it was a kind of salutary lesson on seeing things through other folks eyes.
Tolerance and patience are very good things, but sometimes our courtesy deserts us when we are really irked.
Those first big meet ups were filled with anticipation and good intentions, but reality is that not everyone is ever going to get on with everyone else, and we had to sort of clear the air a bit sometimes.
Cobweb ( nor Wayland in the earlier thread) really did not mean the thread to devolve into sniping, disdain, and flouncing off. Most folks didn't take it that way, but there are even now those who just see it as an offence. LIttle things become huge issues, so the thread was a kind of simple please don't do this, and this is why.
Personally I thought nothing of burning paper on a fire, but others take offence because they're going to cook on it, even if they're not cooking on it right at that moment. I'm a tidy up as a I go camper, and I hate seeing rubbish lying around or plastic bags full. Burning as much as I can seemed practical, but it doesn't work so well on a shared fire.
We live and learn.
Some parents are happy for their children to light sticks from the fire and wave the lit stick around, while other adults (me for one) are most uncomfortable with children doing just that.....and parents can be really, really, irked at someone else refusing their pre school age children access to the fire to do just that. Been there, had the row, still don't think it right for any other adult to have to deal with someone else's unattended child doing such at their fire.....as I said, we all have to see things through other folks eyes sometimes. Daddy took child off and lit his own fire, and had to keep his attention firmly on child himself. At the end of the weekend he made a point of telling me it was my fault they wouldn't be back. Y'can't win sometimes, not even when trying to be reasonable and explain quietly and simply.
So when someone like Cobweb starts a thread like this, instead of stomping and throwing a hissy fit, it would be appreciated if folks might quietly read through, absorb, comment and see where folks are coming from on it.
Most of the those who went to the first (and indeed later) meet ups had never met each other before. That so many truly excellent camps and friendships came from it is a quiet pleasure. I've camped with people I only knew through the forum from one end of the country to the other, there are an awful lot of decent folk around
I hope the newbies end up joining the company too
M