Carcajou Garou said:
Saygo!!!! RA :You_Rock_ Good words to hear, community life is really the only true way of "surviving" get the strenght from each other as well as the protection. No one person can excel at all the skills needed so out come the blanket and we trade. Without my wife I'm only half of what I could be if even that. My family, my clan, my tribe are all in one

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Interesting thread! i took it as a bit of fun initially but it's raising some stuff that seems to be a little more serious.
the sentiments above, among others, make most sense to me and it seems a shame that a sense of community and extended family beyond "me and mine" seems, at least on the surface, to be more and more lacking in modern society. It's difficult not to buy into what, i believe, is a climate of fear that is increasingly being generated , that it's every man for himself and that "they" somehow outnumber "us". It seems convincing but if everyone buys that, all we have is a self fulfilling prophecy, a vicious circle where everyone becomes our potential enemy.
This is in no way intended as a jibe, and i hope its obvious that i am not making connections with anyone here when i say, it's all too easy to become what you fear if you develop a siege mentality or a shoot first and ask questions later approach. It's not a huge leap to a "looking after number one" or "get them before they get me" attitude, and it's probably that ,in extreme, i guess, that fuels the majority of the muggers and the looters and the nutters that prey on those weaker than themselves, and that seem to be the favorite subject in the press. I guess random acts of kindness dont make such good headlines in either times of stress, or everyday life, but i reckon it's just as important to remember that they too are the reality.
I agree when people say their family is the most important thing, of course they are, and like anyone, if someone presented a direct threat to "me and mine" then i would act accordingly, using whatever means necessary.i would just like to try and expand the concept and numbers of those that fall within the category of "me and mine" as much as possible, and try to make sure that given any situation, while i remain aware of the possibility of danger and foes, i remain equally aware of the possibilities of friends and allies, and try not to buy into the idea that people suck and the world is a terrible place.
You may think i'm naive, but in my experience, the vast majority of (although obviously not all) people are basically good,and mean well, and while it's easy, on the surface, to find things that keep us all seperate, i reckon you only have to scratch the surface to find common ground and that we are all basically the same, with the same basic needs and concerns, and the same fears and hopes. ( Sorry, this is all getting to sound like a miss world speach

) I'd like to think i live in a world where, despite what i see in the news, and despite my fears, the idea of treating others as you'd like to be treated still exists and where, the second things change in some way, fear wouldn't have to take over, and we wouldn't all be beating each others heads in over the last slice of walls viennetta.
It strikes me that survival of the fittest or dog eat dog doesn't always need to be the first port of call, and doesn't always make sense , i reckon, eventually, there's always going to be someone faster, fitter, harder, more ruthless etc, no matter who you are, and, it is a strategy in which everyone will eventually find themselves the loser.
I reckon, while it's important to prepare as much as possible for any given eventuality, you can never plan for everything and it seems to me that its those that are open minded, flexible and adaptable that seem to cope best with difficulty or change, be it gradual, or sudden and catastrophic.
I guess i'm drawn to bushcraft for similiar reasons, i like the idea of "thrival" rather than just survival and i, like many i guess, am looking for ways to cope and even live well and more in harmony with my surroundings in any given situation. I suppose i reckon the only way to achieve that in the long run, broadly speaking, is through trying to keep an open mind, through cooperation and mutual respect, and finding some understanding that we, and everything around us, are connected, and part of the same community, and by extention, what we do to our environment and those that share it, be it good or bad, on a large or small scale, has a consequence that will eventually and directly affect "us and ours".
right, that's it, waffle over
