What you do is this.
Take a 2m length of cordage, sisal, willow, whatever you have to hand, and fold it in half put the loop of the fold over one end of a withy, about a handspan back from the end, and pull the loose ends through. It's a kind of hitch with two ties left hanging. Knot those around the willow to secure.
Now, take the other withy and slowly twine the the first one around the second one. When it's where you want it to be, wrap the two ends of string around the new one and tie it off. You won't use all of the twine to do that so go back over the twinned pair of withies (like wrapping gladiator sandals up a leg) cross the twines around the willows and each other, and tie off securely.
It shouldn't budge after that, and the strings help you hang onto one while you reach for the other.
If you have managed to get some twist into the willows where they're crossed over each other, they'll keep that as they grow and the new shoots will come from that as the 'base line' when they reach for the light. They can be wrapped around and threaded through the parent shoots to stiffen up the structure in time.
Best of luck with it
M