I'm not going to link anything for you, go and look in my trip report threads and that's really not the case (or many other threads). It's called looking after it and not abusing it. Are you aware of how to clean gear properly? Polishing, sharpening and treating things so that they don't rust? Or do you just wreck all your gear?
Take a look at the laplander - does it look new to you? Should've gone to specsavers.
Yes, I'm fully aware of how to clean and care for my kit. The military taught me well. I don't 'wreck' my gear, I don't 'need a trip to specsavers'. Read my post back again, and take your current mood inflection of 'sulky kid seeking validation' out of your thinking. Look at the smiley face in my comment, and then read it again and ask yourself if it was an insult or a compliment. You have put it all up in an elaborately staged manner, beautifully presented, designed to showcase it at it's best. The comment reflected that.
So as for the personal insults, don't. It makes you seem like a petulant child, and don't insult people on line, it says nothing good about you at all. It only points to great immaturity.