Hi, i use a DC3 sharpening stone, how do you know when the diamond side has reached the end of its life and is no longer doing its job, mine has developed bits in its centre which seem to be shiny and i was wondering if the diamond covering had worn out, also though instructions say stone to be used dry i have often used it adding a little spittle or water, does this ruin stone or affect the sharpening (it just seems to work better with a little dampening unless i'm using it wrong or its in my imagination) thanks.