Dave, my suggestions are :
(i) sharpen little and often - it's a lot easier to maintain an edge if you don't let it get bad in the first place - this is why butchers constantly touch up their knives on a steel - the steel doesn't abrade the knife, just pushes the metal on the edge back into shape.
(ii) try a set of the ceramic rods, mounted in a V - you just slice a few times either side to reform the knife edge after use. I've used a £10 Lansky pocket "crock stick" version for several years and I'm just experimenting with a borrowed Spyderco sharpmaker which follows this principle but with two grades of triangular rods and more options. In the couple of days I've had it, it's fixed three kitchen devil knives from pretty wrecked back to shaving sharp and touched up my good japanese knives nicely. If I remember the poll results correctly, I think that the sharpmaker is the most popular system among the british blades crew.
(iii) a good shaving edge that cuts hair on a push stoke isn't necessarily the best for a hard use knife. It can be too fragile. A knife sharpened with a slightly coarser grit has more of a sawblade effect and can bite and cut fibrous material better in practice.
(iv) I wouldn't bother honing a field knife on leather - sure it can give a mirror polished edge and I use this on the blade of a clifton shoulder plane I use for fine woodwork, but on a hard use knife, for me, it's never been worth it.
Me - After the results of the last few days, I'll be buying a sharpmaker from Joe at ODS. It's so much easier than trying to hold a consistent angle on the waterstones, and having a set of medium as well as fine stones saves ages when rescuing a battered edge. (this is why I could never be bothered to fix the kitchen devils with the fine grade crock sticks)
Cheers.