...I might sound like an a-hole...
Unfortunately to my mind there is no 'might'...
To be honest I expected more from you due to your medical background.
I have the utmost respect for anyone who puts themselves before others and that includes military personnel.
But your comments regarding civilians are condescending bull poop.
Also just because someone makes it through training does not make them immune from mental ill health.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_military_veteran_suicide
As the rate of suicide is higher for veterans compared to the general population.
Then again those suicides might be those 'fakers' who claim just for monetary reward.