Firstly, well done to you Lits. That first successful fire by friction is a wonderful thing. I should know, I achieved my first success just before Xmas after trying on-and-off for about 30 years.
Having grown up in the woods and over the fields I was lighting fires from an early age. Tutored by my uncle and an old keeper I spent a great deal of time with, I had it down to fine art long before my mates. I can still hear the keepers advice on the matter in my mind. "Get three good heaps ready afore you strike the light boy. Tinder, tinder lights (What he called very fine dry twigs) and "finger sticks". Light the tinder and chuck the rest on it as you pick it up. If'n its ever going to burn, it'll burn then. Just don't go poking at it before theres good embers under it all". The fact that you had to have gathered a supply of decent firewood (bigger stuff) beforehand was taken for granted. That advice, like so much that he gave me, has proved it's worth and truth a thousand times over since.
I remeber being at Cub camp when I was about 8 and being the only person on camp, Akela and leaders included, who could repeatedly get a fire going on a soggy week with only one match and no paper.
I spent years of my childhood convinced that my mother must have been telepathic. I would often get home after a day over the fields cooking cheap sausages on sticks over a fire and/or casting lead ammo for my catapult to be met with "You've been out having campfires again, haven't you!" I probably reeked of woodsmoke and had sooty smudges all over my face, but being unable to smell it on myself I couldn't work out how she knew exactly what I'd been doing ! *LOL*.