The trick with stretching cans, is to make sure you don't cut any holes in the can to be stretched, as you want the air trapped to help spring the full can back out. Another tip, is to try and keep any horizontal cuts around the can as clean as possible, to keep the edge as smooth as possible and non-stretched. For the can going into the other, get some long nosed pliers and slight crimp the edge with a twisting motion, but be careful not to fold or dent the metal, as this will often lead to a split when you eventually add even preasure.to force the two together.