Nothing grumpy about having a different set of priorities - I adore our life - its so much better than wage slavery Indeed I'm not the one starting a thread to bemoan other peoples choices on how to spend their money.
I suspect that needing a holiday equates to needing to get away from normal life. I suspect that getting a life that one enjoys every day is far better than escaping from an unpleasant life for 4% of the year
I also suspect the monthly Sky TV subscription would be far better spent on trips to the library - that would be both cheaper and far more "broadening of the horizons"
Me too
The one thing I have learned in my simple life is a sense of humour - and one of tolerance of others desires For example I think people who pay a fortune to roar round and round in circles on a race track are completely cracked! However being nice to someone who does this professionally means his lady wife deliver me unlimited manure for nothing.
She (and he) probably consider me equally cracked wanting what is, to them, a waste product. Indeed I do pest control work for them to help them, and they pay me in poo!
. I suspect your setup costs were significant. So holidays, tv programmes, books. Yeah we grab an escape from being a wage slave where we can. You're lucky. We know it.