ScottC said:
Language barriers is going to be a problem, how can you get around this? I've never picked up languages very easily...
not really, I am appalling at languages, no matter how hard I try I can never seem to make the words stay in my head.
when I met my wife she spoke very little English, even though I spent evey second of my time with my attention focused on nothing but her, she learnt to speak fluent English before I had managed to remember more that 10 words in creole.
I have lived in Mauritius and Saudi Arabia for years yet never succeeded in learning more than 50 words in their respective languages.
its not that I dont try very very hard, I have studied the Penan language by sitting with them in the jungle for weeks, slowly learning what each word meant and writing it down in my note book with the sound of the word and the meaning untill I have 100's words and numbers to from 1 to 9999.
as i write this my house is festooned with post-it notes on all the doors, cuboard etc each with a different word or phrase and meaning, the one on my computer monitor says "omok ku sui - can you make?"
even though I have tried so very very hard I still can't remember more than fifteen or so of these words at a time and only occasionally can I remember all the numbers requied to count to ten in Penan.
in the jungle I still get out my note pad and refer to it when I want to explain where i am trying to go or negotiate with the blacksmith for a new parang, my note pad is written in my own version of phonetic sounds so i know that i am always pronouncing it right
I have an appalling memory for names and languages yet I have never found this to be anything more than a very minor hindrance in my travels, learn enough to be polite and if you are unable to learn much more dont worry about it.
remember that according to psychologists almost 60 percent of all communication is nonverbal.
of all information transmitted between people 7% is language , 38% is sounds and 55% is body language.
if you dont know that language you are only missing 7% of your communicative ability, the real problem is how dependant you feel on that 7%.
going without it is easy to do if you give it a little thought, everybody views the world though the same senses they see and hear things exactly as you do, so describe them with sounds and vision. After a trip my note books are always filled with pages of diagrams and drawings where I have described things and requests to people.
often I get out my note book to draw something for someone only to find that they can write in English even when they though they cant speak it (as happened frequently in Thailand with the hmong people)
one of my favourite pages in my notebook contains a detailed drawing of a rat which a Penan man drew for me to answer my question "what are we eating?" whilst I was laughing at the drawing (I had thought it was an opossum) he went and got me the tail to make sure I got the message.
try you best to learn the language but if you dont know the words for what you are trying to say then get creative and improvise.
sometimes when you are starting to learn a few words in a new language and you approach some one and confidently use your new words only to find they have no idea what your saying because you pronunciation is wrong, dont get embarrassed and refuse to utter the words again, repeat yourself another 3 or 4 times. If you have ever spoken to someone with a totally different accent to you, you will remember that you usually figured it out by the fourth repetition, they will too and then they will laugh and tell you how to say it properly.
what ever you do dont start talking at people but in a louder slower voice you just look strange and aggressive, if I approached you in the street and started talking at you loudly and slowly you would walk away even though you knew what i was saying.
Be open minded, confident and innovative in the way you approach people and remember to smile and laugh at everything (and get used to being laughed at) you will do fine.