This is absoultely NOT a dig at Firecrest.
Right, got that out of the way
I just wanted to point out an interesting choice of phrase in that (erudite and interesting) post
"refuse to believe"
I don't think that people "refuse to believe" something. They simply don't believe it or are not convinced one way or the other and reserve the right to question and challenge.
To my mind using phrases like "refuse to believe" implies some willful and deliberate awkwardness. It could equally be applied as "refuse to believe in God" or "refuse to believe that Marmite is nice". Its emotive and I suspect why sometimes these types of debates become heated. I suspect that rarely do people "refuse to believe" they just plain don't. In the same way that people aren't Climate Change "deniers" (a phrase associated with holocaust deniers - at least in my mind) they simply aren't convinced.
Now this may be seen as a failure on their part to comprehend. I believe the onus is on the person advancing the argument to convince and persuade. If they fail to convince, it is a failure on their part, not on the part of the person who was, and remains, unconvinced.
Again, for the record, I could have picked phrases frequently used by any number of contributors and I used this one for illustrative purposes only - no dig implict or explicit!
Red
I agree with Red.
You either believe or you don't.
"Refuse to believe" is "ok, the evidence is overwhelming but I'm NOT going to believe it!!"